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0 to3 years old is the child's character and a number of potential development important period, many children at this age would appear to lie in. In March 21st, the founder of Oriental baby-friendly, chairman Jia Jun will visit China Economic Net family channel" happy life", combined with his own experience tells the parents that there is no natural lie between parents and children, understanding is very important.

Beijing Oriental baby Advisory limited company president Jia Jun visit China Economic Net family channel" happy life". China economic net reporter Hao Hongbo / photograph

0 to3 years old is the child's character and a number of potential development important period. The first brain science research has proved that the birth of a child 's brain is not complete, need to be acquired by creating environment for brain development complete. In second, the United States of America educators research shows, the person's life in the17 years to one hundred percent learning ability, then in 0to 3years old can learn80% life ability.

Jia Jun thinks that the world does not have a capital investment than early education for children a greater impact. Domestic and foreign many educational results have proved that the early education for children have lifelong consequences. Chinese old saying,"3 years of age at7 years old, see" good proved this point. "3 years at large " means in this age can be seen in many children 's behavior and habits,"7 years old" refers to the 3before the age of acquisition of many skills through 3to 7 years of age a few years this curing, and become lifelong behavior and habits. So this period of acquisition of a child's life is very important. Early education mission is to put the child the inherent ability to play, but not a gifted education.

0to 3 years of age is also formed the integrity of the critical period, this stage many children will lie, mothers are also feel a headache. Jia Jun frankly, she doesn't think children instinctively lying with adult to understand is the same. Sometimes it is because of the child to be with and without judgment is not formed, so the mouth and mind are inconsistent, and not a lie, is not to. For example, some parents may ask the child have his home PC remote control away, he said no, maybe because he is interested in the remote controller, just wanted to play. In view of this situation, first of all, parents do not think the children lying attitude, parents need to do is to judge and analysis of children in what circumstances lie, like a child like remote control, hide it, said he did not see, this is the time to analyze the child unconscious language is what. Parents need to communicate with children, let the children express their wishes, to tell him the reasonable requirements of parents will support.

The child is lying, parents should respect their children reasonable to ask, don't tell a child hard struggle, allowing children to tell the truth. And of course the understanding and tolerance, and tell the children what is good, what is promise. Here, Jia Jun cited a her own example," for example, my daughter said today he wants to play with toys,5 minutes, promise is honesty important content. To a 3 year old children in 5 minutes is very abstract, at that time she does not want to receive, not that she did not want to accept, but she did not play well, not understanding what is going on in 5minutes. The parents should be a little wisdom, such as I will tell my daughter a long needle refers to 5 when the toys away, but not until after5time, until3 when you must remind her, after a few minutes the toy will close up."

There is no natural child lying, just because the parent method problems, or the parents of the children do not understand, or because the child worried about being parents criticize, the child will lie. If the parents understand their children 's needs, forgive him, encourage him to tell the truth, I believe that children in the habit of lying will not appear in the family dictionary.